Goodbye it is then....
Date: Jul 18th, 2006 2:08:07 pm - Subscribe
Well, it has been several months since my last entry. I thought the last time that I posted that I still had a chance with GF, but it seems that it was not the case. I made several attempts to contact GF after that lunch date, called her a couple of times, e-mailed several all to no avail. I always got the story that GF was simply so busy she didn't have the time. I always thought that lacked a little honesty and turns out that I am right. Of course she has never told me that, I just assume it to be so since she hasn't contacted me in months. I think GF just finally decided that she had what she wanted in her hubby and wasn't willing to risk that by having her flings with me any more. I understand that. Wish it wasn't the case, but life goes on. Perhaps it is for the best as the wife and I have been getting along much better lately. We have been re-discovering ourselves so to speak sexually and that has really improved our relationship. At least I think it has. Time will tell on that one too. But for now, it looks like as far as GF and I go, it is over. At least I had it while it lasted. I still have all the important e mails she ever sent me, and of course this on-line thing. Ah memories...
I'm Still on the Roster!
Date: Apr 11th, 2006 2:58:46 pm - Subscribe
Yay for me! I took a day off on Monday to recover from a wild weekend and decided to call up GF and ask if she wanted to go to lunch. GF was thrilled that I was asking. In fact she was kind of bummed that she was "scrunged out" as she put it. Seems that Mondays are jeans and polo shirt day at GF's work. I didn't mind, she always looks good. Seems that she has been so busy at work that she rarely even checks her e-mail. I know it sounds a little like a cop-out but I tend to believe her. Anyway she still wants to see me she just hasn't had any time to do anything. I figure when her job slows down in a month or so I will get to be with her again. So it was a good meeting. Oh, and GF is hell-bent on losing 20 pounds. She is still a sexy woman even if she had been putting on a little weight. If she loses 20 pounds she will be smack dab back into "hot babe" territory. That will be rough...
My Unconditional Release?
Date: Mar 30th, 2006 1:59:12 pm - Subscribe
Well it has been about six weeks now since I started my new job. And it has been over three months since I got to see GF. No, scratch that. I took her to lunch in Feb. That was the last time I saw her. She looked good too, in her short skirt and her high-heeled boots. Anyway because I am no longer working in the same part of the metro-mess that I used to work in it is now next to impossible to see her after work, or during work for that matter. She used to stop by after her work and I would take a break and go get a drink or something and we would make out in her car for 15 minutes. No more. Further, she has pretty much stopped calling and e mailing me completely. Granted, this is her company's busy season and she has been exceedingly busy but how much time does it take to send an e mail in the morning? I continue to send her stuff but she almost never replies anymore. The last mail she sent me she explained that she was working on her marriage and that she figured that I was too. True, but I still miss her terribly. She was a lot of things that my wife wasn't, and still isn't. So, I am coming to the conclusion that she is ending the relatiionship, without formally ending the relationship. Maybe she wants to keep her options open for the future when her business slows down. I don't know. I would jump at the chance to see her again, I know that. So, I guess I am just adopting the "wait and see" attitude. It makes me sad. She was an avenue for me to talk about the trials and tribulations of my life, and hers too. I miss that. I am sure that I haven't been replaced in the rotation. I believe that she has just come to peace with her life and decided that she would rather work on and spend time with her mate than me. I suppose I should do the same. Until next time...
Another great No-Tell Motel meeting....
Date: Dec 22nd, 2005 6:44:33 pm - Subscribe
Well GF wanted to give me her "gift" before Christmas and she did, yesterday evening. We found an old Motel that still takes cash, a rare thing in this day and age. So she gives me enough of her "mad money" and I book the room. She is too embarassed to actually book the room. But it doesn't bother me. So anyway GF meets me after work and I greet her at the door wearing only my socks...GF was tickled at that. But we had yet another fantastic session. I actually got GF off twice, something Hubby rarely does. He gets his and typically rolls over and falls asleep. Helluva lover huh. Maybe that is why GF likes to have me so much. I always make sure she gets hers first and then I have my first. Works out great that way. Oh and today GF e mails me from her job, just to say she was bored, and she accidently sends it to Hubby as well! OOPS! So Hubby immediately mails her back, since he still isn't working and has nothing else to do all fucking day, and gives her a rasher of shit. Oh well. She told him that she didn't mean too and that she had just sent the mail to "everyone" in her address book. Uh, yeah right. I doubt that he bought it. I resisted the urge to e mail Hubby directly and "appologize" for ruining his life...HAH! Doubt that GF would think that was funny.... Anyway she is sorta worried now and deleted my address from her contact list. I doubt that Hubby would take the trouble to go to her workplace and demand to see her address list but who knows, what else does he have to do all day. And the whole thing kinda ticks me off anyway. It isn't like I was the one pursuing GF. She pursued me. So for him to get all pissy with me rubs me the wrong way. I feel like telling him that if he was a real man she wouldn't need to cheat on him anyway but I won't. That would probably put the nail in GF's coffin where her marriage is concerned. And I damn sure don't want to be the cause, well, okay, be DIRECTLY the cause of that breakup. I always said it take two to tango and GF is leading the way. I'm sure not going to stop unless she wants to. So we will just continue until either GF gets caught or she gets tired of me. Don't think that will happen for a long time. Think I will go have me a beer...
NEWS FLASH! HUBBY GETS JOB!
Date: Dec 12th, 2005 10:11:51 pm - Subscribe
Well boys and girls, the last time I posted here (god has it been that long!??) Hubby was un-employed and doing his best CIA impersonation. GF was reaching her breaking point it seemed and I figured that I was about to be out of the picture. Not so fast jefferson! That was before GF decided one Friday night to have a drink with one of her girlfriends after work. They ended up at the bar I hang out in (go figure... ) and when Hubby found out the shit hit the proverbial fan. The whole thing was innocent, sorta. I wasn't even there until very late that evening. But it seems that Hubby figured, incorrectly, that the whole thing was a ruse to meet me. Although he didn't bother to come over there and find out for himself. By the time I got there GF was drunk, and loudly proclaiming to our mutal friends that "her marriage was over". Apparently Hubby had sent her several nasty text messages accusing her of doing everything that we have been doing but that he has not a shred of proof of. So this pissed GF off considerably. Anyway by the end of the evening she was down at my stool. I ended up following her home just because she could hardly keep it straight. We tried to take her keys away but she was not having any of that. So she made it home safely and I drove off into the night. Next day she and Hubby didn't speak. Monday she spells it out for Hubby. She told him that if he didn't get a fucking job by the first of the year she was out of there. Lo and behold two weeks later Hubby takes a position working for an auto dealership. Imagine that. So after the first of the year Hubby will be gainfully employed. It will be a lot harder to keep GF under surveilance when he has to go to fucking work everyday. Breaks my heart! So last week Hubby goes out of town with relatives. GF couldn't go because she had to work. So guess what we did after she got off? Yep. You guesed it. Got us a room. So GF and I spent the evening between the sheets and then went out to dinner. I was loving it. Course Hubby sent her two or three texts while we were eating. I made sure to kiss her neck and nibble her ears while she was trying to get her messages. I am such a little stinker... . So we are back on the sly seeing each other whenever we can. I took her to lunch last weekend and we ran some errands that she had to run, in her car no less! I even drove once! HAH! Don't get me wrong, I am not in this just to stick it to Hubby. I really like GF a lot. I just can't get over the irony. Despite all his efforts, here I am, making love to his wife, driving his car, and taking her to lunch! GF is already planning how to give me a "Christmas present". What a deal this is turning out to be. Updates forthcoming.
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