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I am the eldest in the family and was much pampered child. Since I was the first child of the family, I got a lot of attention. My younger sister somehow grew up very insecure because of this reason. She is a very possessive and jealous kind of person. She was always jealous of me. She could not stand if anyone praised me in front of her. I understood the reason behind her insecurity and always hoped that things will become better once she grows up. But that never happened. The more she grew up, more insecure she became. The actual problem started when I reached high school and started dating a good looking guy. I realized that my sister was extremely jealous and did not like it. She started trying her best to get attention from him. This disturbed me. Though I had been understanding of the situation through out, this was beyond me. I did not want to discuss this issue with our parents, as I still cared for my little sister. I could not find any way to solve this problem without alerting everybody in the family. One day I saw an ad from Ajmeri Baba. I thought of calling him and discussing it with him, as it offered privacy. I called Ajmeri Baba and told him about my problem and also my concern about my sister. He told me that he would be able to handle it. He assured me that soon I will find that my sister loves me and her insecurity and jealousy will go away. I waited patiently. After a week or so, I found my sister in our bedroom crying. I asked her the reason, and she told me that she was feeling guilty about the way she has been behaving with me all this while. She also told me that she has been so jealous of all the attention that I always got in the family. I heard her out and told her that we all cared a lot about her, and she was every one’s pet, coz she was the little one. Thanks to Ajmeri Baba, since then my sister has become my best friend. We go out together, sometimes even with my boyfriend, and I feel she really likes him now. I am so thankful to Ajmeri Baba Sahib for returning my sister to me. Thank you Ajmeri Baba Sahib. |