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Trashy quiz time.	25th 2005f Nov, 2005 @ 7:46 am - Subscribe
Okay, so I'm only going to use this blog to post quiz results, cause I don't know where else to put them. Will your relationship go the distance? 5 of B(s) 4 of C(s) 2 of A(s) Mostly B's Like most couples, you guys are thick on loads of levels. You feel a special bond for each other and are mates at a pretty fundamental level. Is it the love of all love affairs? Possibly not. Like most couples you've got your areas where you head butt and sometimes you find yourself wondering if there's any future for this union. It's really a question of trying to figure out if these problems tip the balance towards overall happy or overall not happy enough? That's what it's all about. Do you feel you couldn't live without this person? Or could you see yourself skipping happily into the sunset with some other guy, some day? --- Sounds about right. --- Do you fall in love too fast? You roll your eyes when you hear about losers in love, such as J.Lo. Can’t she be without a man for two seconds? Why does she rush into these pathetic relationships? You’re right. It’s smart to keep a guy at arms-length while you’re assessing whether he’s worth you handing over your heart. But while it’s not good to get hooked too early, when do you actually let your guard down? Somewhere between you and Jennifer there has to be a happy medium. Chance are you’ve had your heart broken. One of the toughest lessons we learn is that love isn’t always good for us, and neither are men. Rather than building a fortress around your search. The fact is, you’re probably a lot closer to knowing who’s right for you, now that you’ve been with someone who was so wrong. You’re reluctant to make yourself vulnerable again, which is natural, but don’t let that fear fester. Deal with it and talk to your friends about what happened. You don’t have to jump into a relationship, but you do need to clear the way for love to find you again. --- See, that's how I really am, though I don't show it. Hmm. I guess it's like... love is a trend for me. Everyone else is going to have pathetic little teenage love affairs, I might aswell jump onto the bandwagon. I turn it into a sort of competition. "Haha, my boyfriend is older/smarter/hotter/cooler/nicer/stronger than yours. Okay, yeah, so what if I don't love him?" I'm mean --- Do you expect too much? You've got a great attitude towards dating and are open enough to give the right guy a go, when you meet him. Better still, you'll actually realise he's Mr Right and be able to snap him up. Of course, it may take a lot of dates, with a lot of Mr Wrongs, before you meet your true love but that's not so bad if you find dating fun. You'll also gain plenty of male friends �" many men like women who are not just attracted to the superficial. You may be single now but you won't be for long. You're not holding yourself back and that's the biggest battle for most women in the love stakes. --- That's right. See, I do make a big ass list of expectations, but I really don't expect him to fill all of them, that would be ridiculous and I'd feel inadequate. I could learn to love (almost) everyone. There really are only 3 major expectations: That he's a good talker, that he's funny and that he could atleast hold his sex drive until marriage [sorry, premarital sex is a gross idea]. --- Are you an Alpha, Beta or Gamma girl? Chances are, you enjoyed school the most out of all your peers. Why? Popularity wasn’t your religion. You didn’t aspire to alpha - you didn’t even care who was in, out or otherwise. And that probably helped you. You read, you learned and you certainly didn’t feel the need to dumb-down for peers more focused on the ‘lesser’ pursuits. “What she does,” writes Laura Sessions Stepp in the Washington Post, “is more important than what she appears to be.” That’s because you’re confident, intelligent and independent. You know where the newest ‘in’ bar is… but you’re just as happy to shoot pool at the local, dingy pub. THE GOOD: You’re everyone’s friend, building relationships based on real substance. “Her peers like her for who she is as a person,” says Wiseman. And, as a social chameleon, you also achieve the loyalty and respect of your friends and colleagues �" a valuable asset as you go through life. It’s not surprising that many gamma girls - characterised by their ability to be careful listeners and easy to talk and laugh with �" make natural leaders. They are very successful in politics and senior management roles. THE BAD: Because gamma girls can be more about what other people are doing rather than themselves, they can lose sight of their own needs in the face of keeping their friends happy. So, make sure you don’t miss out on what you want by being overly concerned with everyone else. Have passion, but strive for balance too. And remember, that in an attempt to avoid all workplace and emotional politics, you may miss the subtle undercurrents that are important to understand so that you remain informed. Be impartial, not ignorant. --- Yay. ---
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	amente	November 25th, 2005
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