Glad I just got a new & cool blog site. I used to blog at xanga but when I deleted my account to register for another with a better username, damn it, an error always occurred. I just hate it. I regret deleting my account. I have been working on it for years and bla bla bla. I hate to remember.
Anyways, I hope to have fun here.
Thanks, Aeonity Blog.
What you feel is what only matters to you. It's what you do to the people you say you love, that's what matters. That's the only thing that counts.
Sometimes the person you want the most, is the person you're much better without.
Don't make the mistake of taking advantage of me again. Because this time, I'm stronger and there's more to me than you.
What hurts more than losing you is knowing you're not fighting to keep me.
I wish there was someway I could prove to him that I won't run away again. I need him too much.
To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The quickest way to ruin a relationship
with someone is to actually try to
have a relationship with them.
Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.
You want everything to stay the same until you're ready for it to change. But you can't do that. You can't expect the whole world to stand still until you're ready.
And the bottom line is, what defines you isn't how many times you crash, but the number of times you get back on the bike. As long as it's one more, you're all good.
It made me wonder how many times we forgive just because we don't want to lose someone, even if they don't deserve our forgiveness.
In life, no one has ever abused you more then you have abused yourself. And the limit of your self abuse should be exactly the limit or the abuse you'd tolerate from someone else.
It's weird when you know the end of something that has taken so much time to get over is coming & you're so relieved that it's finally here but you still, for some reason want to hold on. Just for one more second...just so it can hurt a little more. After all, this problem has been your life for so long you're not sure if you'll be used to being free.
The real trouble with my sarcasm, is that half the time when people think I'm being sarcastic, I'm actually being quite sincere.
Change is a funny thing. We're never quite sure of what we're becoming, or why. Then one day we look at ourselves and wonder who we are and how we got there.
You can tell me a hundred times that you're sorry, and a thousand more that it won't happen again. You know i love you more than anyone in this world, but all these lies? I'm sorry, I can't deal with that.
When you're young everything feels like the end of the world. but it's not; it's just the beginning. you might have to meet a few more jerks, but one day you're gonna meet a boy who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Like how the sun rises and sets with you.
Why don't you come out and say, come right out and say it? Cause even if the words are probably gonna hurt, I'd rather have the truth than something insecure.
I won't fight to stay when all you want for me to do is leave. I'm not gonna miss you when you don't miss me. I'm not gonna care when you don't at all. I'm just not going to try anymore. You've kept my hopes up for much too long. It's about time they come crashing back down to earth.
You can't deny it, things have changed. We've grown apart, and you have to face the fact that I will no longer be there every single time you need me.
Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life, and love shouldn't be one of them.
It's not that i believe everything happens for a reason. It's just that i think that some things are meant to be broken. Imperfect. Chaotic. It's the universe's way of providing contrast, you know? There has to be a few holes in the road, because that's just how life is.
The day I learn to fly, I'm not coming down.
Your opponent, in the end, is never really the player on the other side of the net, or the swimmer in the next lane, or the team on the other side of the field, or even the bar you must high-jump. Your opponent is yourself, your negative internal voices, your level of determination.
Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy. Anger.. Tears.. Laughter.. It's when you want to be together despite it all. That's when you truly love another. I'm sure of it.
If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will.
Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Tragedy, sadness, loneliness and despair taught me that life is really a beautiful thing; if it wasn't I wouldn't be able to recognize that anything was wrong.
When you are in love you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.
The couple that fights the most is the one most in love. It shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring.
If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back they'd never ask you to.
I laugh, I love, I hope, I try I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different, me and you.
LOVE: We think about it. Sing about it. Dream about it and lose sleep worrying about it. When we don't know we have it, we search for it. When we discover it, we don't know what to do with it. When we have it, we fear losing it. It is the constant source of pleasure and pain, but we don't know which it will be from one moment to the next. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without.