The Illusion of Perfection
Date: May 31st, 2007 2:21:21 pm - Subscribe
No perfect relationship exists. Maybe in a Danielle Steel book, or a Hallmark movie script, but not in reality. If things seem perfect, wait a moment and then it become what it is meant to be which is not perfect. I have never been under the illusion that relationships can be perfect, but the imperfections that can arise I tend to be choosey. I do not take back cheaters or tolerate liars and thiefs. I don't date drinkers, druggies or lazy people. And now, here is a situation I have had yet to deal with. A psycho ex. Many of you HAVE dealt with that, and I applaud you. However, I am not sure if I can. Not sure if I have the emotional capacity for such drama. The boyfriend is wonderful, loving and caring. All that you could ask for from a man....it is his 19 year old ex, mother of his son who has get to grasp the concept of maturity. She is now sending ME messages on myspace, and I have never spoke to this girl, or seen her in person. I refuse to have anything to do with her, but yet she pokes her head into my world and thinks its ok. Wrong. I do not tolerate this. Not sure how I want to handle said situation, but I keep leaning to give it time. Eventually she has to get over it all. Or maybe she will give up.. Maybe when her birthday rolls around she will lose all her teenage inhabitions....yeah right. In any case..things are fuzzy right now and the future is unclear. Boyfriend and I have only been together one week, so even though it is not serious, I do see it in the future as turning into that.
Patience is a virtue. Someone please smack me with the virtue stick....
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