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Like by non
12th Jan 2008 @ 7:10 pm - Subscribe

I do have to say, this outlet gives me a streak of new-ness. Like back in the good old days. We'll just see how things are in a couple of days.

First Impression by non
14th Jan 2008 @ 3:23 pm - Subscribe

I have never really relied on first impressions. At least not consciously. I still believe that the will to make a good first impression is always something to follow upon. But, those looking on at the ones wanting to make good impression, must not take everything at face value.

I don't agree either to listening to gossips about a person before you know the person. You'd end up having a different perception, a biased one, regarding that person. And that is just unfair.

Talking about everything by non
17th Jan 2008 @ 10:38 am - Subscribe

I am quite quiet around crowds of people, and I only will talk when there is a need or, the topic is something which I am genuinely interested in. I don't believe in making small talks to socialize. In fact, I don't think it is even within my principles to pretend to want to talk or chat while mingling, when in reality, you just don't give a tuppence about what the other person thinks. All forms of interactions should be done willingly and a two way kind of thing. So if I didn't feel like talking, then I shouldn't be talking.

It's different when I am with a small group, or with one person at one time. I would open up much easier and at times would delve inside and talk about almost everything. The downside is, there are moments I wouldn't know when to shut up.

Real Intentions by non
19th Jan 2008 @ 2:34 pm - Subscribe

I've never written about this before. Not because it is some dark secrets. Nor is it something I'm ashamed of. It just never is something I wrote. Maybe because I would not want to know what readers perception of me is at my normal blog.

I have discussed it with friends.

It isn't really something normal either in my society. But it isn't illegal or anything like that.

What is it? Its about marriage and children.

You see, when I was in school, I used to dream of marrying early. I hoped to find the man of my dreams and so on and so forth. The second part was mostly teenage thoughts. But the marrying early was not a fleeting thought. I still had that in mind when I reached my early 20s. It was quite exasperating when I became 21, then 22, and 23, and so forth. "So when is prince charming stopping by to ring the bell," I'd mused.

Along those years, I attended this one health course. About first pregnancy, being healthy and optimum at an early age. And this early age is before 32 (varies of course between women). And it struck me. Did I want to get married because I wanted to get married, or because I wanted a family. A big one at that. Which meant I need to have my first child quick.

It is absurd to put it that way of course. But it did made me think on why I was so adamant, so wanting to get married early.

Not that I would want to settle down with just any Tom Dick or Harry, but well, there are stronger wantings.

Oh wouldn't it be great if there is someone I already fancy?