What would you do if you loved your friend and you knew that there was nothing you could fo about it? Like, you couldn't act out on your feelings or tell them.

That is where I am at.

This sucks.

i live in southern california. thanks for the advice

You could tell them. I mean, wut's really stopping u? They're your friend, they need to understand how u feel. If they don't think anything should happen between you, then at least you could still be friends, it's better than nothing. Just give it a shot, I'm sure that if they're really your friend then they'll accept it.