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Hubby Strikes Again!
Date: Oct 26th, 2005 8:03:21 pm - Subscribe
Mood: focused


Well let's see. Last time I posted here some of you recomended murder to solve my problem (Tahksik)... Upon further review, murder is not a good idea. See, I want to have sex with GF, not some guy named "Snake" down at the department of corrections.... Anyway I sent her an e-mail out of frustration a while back and we sort of had it out. I was questioning her desire to remain GF. She was hurt that I would even ask her that. Seems that she is frustrated too, probably more so than me because Hubby has been kissing her ass so much lately he needs lip balm.... So she feels bad on the one hand that she still feels what she feels for me but on the other hand I bring out good feelings in herself that Hubby hasn't in years. So bottom line is she doesn't want to give me up but Hubby has her so under control that she can't see me right now. And that leads to MAJOR frustration on her part. Hell, I should probably feel sorry for her. And I do I guess, but she needs to take back some of her life. She doesn't do anything by herself. Any time she wants to Hubby gives her the third fucking degree. I tried to explain to her that she needs to establish herself a little bit. Go and do things with girlfriends and stuff that are legitimate. Otherwise the one time she does try to sneak off and see me she won't be able to. So we shall see what happens with that. And then we come to this weekend. GF has to work on Saturday. Hubby was supposed to be going to a football game with friends. Long story short Hubby tells GF today that they have decide not to go. What a surprise. I figured he would pull some shit like this. GF was pretty disappointed but I was fully prepared for that so I wasn't. She is still trying to figure something out so we can get together but I am not holding my breath. We shall see what happens on that situation as well. And of course he still doesn't have a freaking job. GF is getting really tired of that situation. Whether she ever gets tired of it enough to leave him remains to be seen. Enough for now.
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder....or DOES it?
Date: Oct 11th, 2005 3:51:59 am - Subscribe
Mood: accepted


Well let's review: 1. GF hasn't been able to call me for 6 weeks. 2. GF can't wipe her ass without Hubby wanting to know when she is wiping, how she is wiping, where she is wiping, and when she will be done wiping. 3. GF has not e mailed me in days, possibly over a week. (This is unusual since she used to e mail me at least once a day if not more.) GF also promised she would e mail this weekend. GF was off today. No e mail. 4. I never see GF out anymore since Hubby won't come to the bar I hang out in. And of course he won't let her go anywhere by herself so she can't come in there either. I think that I may be out of her sight and out of her mind. GRRRR!
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Big Brother is watching.....
Date: Oct 7th, 2005 4:42:47 pm - Subscribe
Mood: crabby


I was supposed to see GF Wednesday night. Since hubby practically has her under surveilance she was going to come by my work and we were going to take a ride. She was supposed to be going to the mall but she had planned to see me instead. Guess who is waiting on her when she comes out to her car after work? Yup. Hubby. Seems he decided to "surprise" her with a new car for her birthday. Isn't that nice? The fucker has no job but he leased her another car (with her money no less) for her birthday. Just brings tears to my eyes. So she can't even call me to let me know what has happened. So I am waiting and waiting and she never shows. I figured that hubby had something to do with it. If he doesn't ever get a job he can continue to pull this shit forever. I don't see how she stands it. It has been nearly two years since he worked. I am getting pissed off about the whole situation. My wife seems content to just be "roommates" and my girlfriend can't take a piss without him right there. Leaves me out in the cold. He probably figures that if he can keep her away from me long enough she will tell me to take a hike. I think the opposite is true. I think she is eventually going to tell HIM to take a hike. I hope so anyway.
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Nothing New....DAMNIT!
Date: Sep 30th, 2005 9:42:17 pm - Subscribe
Mood: surly


Well so little has been happening with me and GF that I might as well not call her that anymore. Her worthless fucking husband STILL doesn't have a job and continues to plan every waking minute of her day. I am certain that he is doing this so he can keep an eye on her. Or as the Stones would say, Under My Thumb!

"It's down to me, yes it is
The way she does just what she's told
Down to me, the change has come
She's under my thumb
Ah, ah, say it's alright..."

Am I pissed? You betcha. He keeps telling her that he has had this interview and that interview but guess what? Never a call back. I think he's yanking her chain. And he is doing a bang-up job of keeping her from seeing me. So yeah, I am a little irritated. I have seen her once in the last two or three weeks and that was for about 15 minutes. She doesn't want to call me anymore on her phone since Hubby is monitoring it so I never get to talk to her on the weekends at all. FUCK! FUCK! FUCK!

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Not much to report here lately...
Date: Sep 13th, 2005 5:56:28 pm - Subscribe
Mood: crabby


Unfortunately not much to tell here. GF has quit calling me on her phone since her annoying husband is monitoring it. Plus he has been keeping her busy kissing her ass so much lately that she hasn't had time to do much except be with him. I am sure that is his intention... The guy is definately not stupid. Anyhow our hookups have been drastically reduced. I don't get to see her after work at all anymore, at least not for a while. Maybe after enough time has passed, that is if he ever trusts her out of his sight again. In the meantime we just e-mail each other and talk at work. She tells me that she isn't ready to give me up, yet. If he can keep her under his thumb long enough she will. Sigh.
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