Crush on you, baby
Date: Feb 4th, 2005 10:24:38 am - Subscribe
Mood: insignificant
Men...are funny creatures (aren't they??!). They didn't give us clear cut signals of interest, but they have a tendency to mix them all up. Yea..sometimes it's fun..but mostly, it's not.
Furthermore, the signs that they give usually don't seem like signs of attraction at all. And by the time we're losing interest, he's suddenly running after you and telling you that he's been watching you all this time.
What a confusion!
So girls, if you think a guy likes you (and if your instinct didn't work because you're too illogically sensitive to using it), let's give him a great smile, baby!
Just a nice one, i-am-available kind of smile.
If he smiles back, or his face suddenly lights up, he likes you (..probably..)
If he starts sweating and looks all flustered, ops..he likes you even more.
If his smile is the polite kind..well, maybe he isn't so crazy about you after all..
But the point is..don't be so sure about it until he says he wants you and loves you (even when he said so, remember this.. not every man tells you the truth).
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What is valentine?
Date: Feb 3rd, 2005 1:21:31 pm - Subscribe
Mood: agitated
A couple of days ago, I've met my bestfriend in a mall. She wants to buy a valentine's gift for her boyfriend, ofcourse. She picked a teddy (this teddy could say some words with my bestfriend's voice in 3 minutes duration). 
I'm a little bit shocked at the beginning because I never knew she's really expecting a valentine's silly ritual. As far as I known her, valentine's never listed in her calendar.
Well, finally I got the answer. It's her boyfriend who wants to celebrate a valentine.
"I'm just having fun and I'm not taking it seriously", she said.
Okay.
Yes, it's sweet to have some chocolates in a pretty box, a romantic candle light dinner, dozen of roses in a special day. But I get dissappointed when I asked some of friends about what is so special in a valentine's day. Most of them told me, "It's a celebration of love".
Celebration of love, huh? Let's see..
We all know that love is an essential aspect in life. Love from our parents, from friends, from siblings, from teachers, lovers..or anyone.
And when religions tought us to pray to our God, every prayers contained a deep thankfulness of life, love, everything God's given to us.
Is valentine's day another symbolization? Just like Mother's Day?
If it's so, let's create Tear's Day (it also essential in our life, don't you think?), or..Reflection's Day (furthermore, no one ever said to me that Yoga or meditation isn't good for your body and spirit) 
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Men, women and friendship
Date: Feb 1st, 2005 10:21:36 am - Subscribe
Mood: wondering
Can women and men be just friends? It's so hard for me to understand them. Men sometimes are so complicated..(agree??)
Once, I had a male friends who used to be a good friend. He told everything about him and so I did the same thing. We had fun together. We talked, we laughed, we did things together. It was a sweet friendship.
And until one day, without no special reason, he just kissed me softly and gently (I'm a little bit tipsy at that time). I realized that was a huge mistake so I pushed him over. When I asked for an explanation of his behaviour, he said that it was spontaneous and he did it because he started to feel something about me. His answer makes my eyebrows raised for a while..
I'm confused and somewhat betrayed. We had shared confidences and vulnerabilities, and his attempt at cinematic romance colored my perception of his previous intentions. Was he being my friend in an attempt to win my heart all these months?
Needless to say, our friendship did not survive, but more because he disappeared (probably from embarrassment) and I did nothing to pursue him than from my inability to trust him again.
Throughout adolescence, college, graduate school and now stepping to adulthood, I have formed and maintained close friendships with men as well as women. And I am quite confident my life would be less if any of them were not a part of me.
My knowledge of male sexuality and psychology have been increased exponentially through these companionships, allowing me to avoid the usual anxiety associated with intergender collisions.
I would like to think that my influence has brought my male friends closer to answering the question "what do women want?" than Freud ever was. 
Men and woman not only can be, but should be, friends. What they have to offer one another is incomprehensible, and both sides can only benefit from the unification.
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My 2nd blog
Date: Jan 30th, 2005 2:05:47 pm - Subscribe
Mood: overjoyed
Exciting!
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